Rooted Connection. Relational Healing. Meaningful Change.
Therapy for individuals and couples seeking depth, clarity, and authentic growth.
Are you struggling with…
Repeating painful relationship patterns
High-conflict or reactive relationships
Disconnection or loss of intimacy
Major life or family transitions
Breakup or relationship recovery
Difficulty launching into adulthood
Strong emotions that feel overwhelming
Feeling stuck, unclear, or ungrounded
Strong relationships begin with strong inner foundations.
Whether you’re seeking deeper connection with a partner — or with yourself — I’ll support you in building clarity, trust, and a more grounded way forward.
Let’s begin with a conversation about what matters most to you.
My Approach
I believe counseling is most effective when it is grounded in safety, trust, and a real human relationship. My work is relational, steady, and engaged—offering a space where you can slow down, feel supported, and explore what’s happening beneath the surface of your experiences.
In our work together, I’m active and present. Sessions often focus on understanding emotional patterns as they unfold in real time—within yourself or between you and others. I draw from Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), parts work (IFS), and mindfulness-based approaches to support emotional regulation (Hakomi & PACT), self-understanding, and more secure, connected relationships.
Rather than offering quick fixes, my work helps clients develop depth, clarity, and sustainable change. This includes learning how to work with intense emotions, recognize protective patterns, and make choices that are more aligned with your values and the kind of life and relationships you want to build.
With couples, I help slow reactive cycles, strengthen emotional safety, and rebuild connection when trust, communication, or intimacy has been strained. With individuals, our work often centers on developing greater self-awareness, emotional steadiness, and relational clarity.
My approach is informed by lived experience, body-based awareness, and a deep respect for the natural rhythms of growth and change. Healing is not linear, and I honor it as a layered, ongoing process. This work is an invitation to listen inward, tend to what matters most, and move toward a life and relationships that feel more grounded, connected, and intentional.
People I Work With
I work with individuals, couples, and adolescents who are navigating emotionally complex seasons of life and relationship. Much of my work centers on moments of transition, strain, or rupture—when old patterns no longer work and new ways of relating are needed.
I often work with:
Couples in high-conflict or emotionally reactive dynamics who want to slow things down, reduce harm, and rebuild emotional safety
Partners navigating relationship rupture, separation, or breakup recovery, including those seeking clarity about whether to stay together
Individuals adjusting to major life transitions, such as becoming parents or redefining roles within relationships
Men and fathers seeking greater emotional awareness, relational responsibility, and more connected partnerships
Adolescents and young men, through mentorship-oriented counseling that supports identity development, emotional maturity, and healthy relationship skills
Young adults struggling to launch into independent adulthood, including difficulties with motivation, confidence, direction, or separating from family-of-origin dynamics
Clients navigating challenges with differentiation from family, such as feeling overly responsible for parents, emotionally entangled, or unsure how to develop an independent sense of self
Clients who tend to benefit most from my approach are thoughtful, reflective, and willing to engage honestly with their inner world and relational patterns—even when that work feels challenging. You don’t need to have everything figured out; you do need a willingness to show up with curiosity and care.
Formal Education and Training:
Coaching individuals and couples since 2021.
M. Ed. Clinical Mental Health Candidate.
Level I Certified Emotionally-Focused Therapist (EFT).
Passion and Presence Mindful Relationship Sex Therapy Certification Candidate.
Trainings in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Hakomi Mindful/Somatic-Based Therapy.
About Me
Hi, I’m Talor Lee Stiles. I’m a clinical intern in Clinical Mental Health Counseling whose work has been shaped by nearly two decades of experience across relationship-focused and body-based helping roles, including life and relationship coaching, personal training, massage therapy, and now clinical training.
Over many years of working closely with people, I learned early that meaningful change doesn’t happen through insight alone. It happens through trust, attunement, and learning how to listen to both the body and the emotional system. These experiences continue to inform how I work today, particularly with clients navigating relational strain, emotional intensity, and developmental transitions.
Before entering clinical training, I practiced as a certified life and relationship coach for four years. That work, combined with my background in somatic and movement-based disciplines, shaped a relational style that is grounded, present, and responsive rather than prescriptive or rushed. While I am currently practicing under supervision, I bring a high level of skill, discernment, and depth of experience into my work with clients.
Outside of my professional life, I live with my family on a small homestead in the Puget Sound region of Washington. I’ve been in a committed partnership for over 16 years, and—like most long-term relationships—ours has moved through many seasons of growth, strain, and reorganization. Living close to the land and raising our two daughters has deepened my respect for patience, responsibility, and the nonlinear nature of change.
Tending to my own emotional, relational, and physical well-being is not separate from my work—it’s part of what sustains it. I believe the steadiness we offer others is shaped by how we live our own lives.
If you’re considering therapy, I’m glad you’re here. Reaching out is often a meaningful first step, and I’d be honored to support you in this chapter.
How we work together
Couple Sessions:
First Two Sessions are 90 minutes
Next two are 60 minute individual sessions
Regular sessions on a weekly basis are 75 minutes
Sessions bi/weekly or monthly sessions are 90 minutes
Rates:
90 Minutes: $240-$145
75 Minutes: $200-$120
60 Minutes: $160-$100
50 Minutes: $135-$80
Initial consultations are 20 minutes
*Sliding Scale options are based on income and availability.
Individual Sessions
First Two Sessions are 75 minutes
Regular sessions are 50 minutes
Bi weekly or Monthly sessions are 60 min
Curious if we’d be a good fit?
I offer a free 20-minute consultation so we can connect and see what feels right. Send me an email to set up a time